A fren sent mi this article...veri meaning...gonna rip abit of it and post it here, it might be a little long but i believe its worth ur time...the original is way longer :)


Regarding Maturity…

In this society that emphasizes on the packaging, we would sometimes inevitably envy other people’s good looks, and lament about our own imperfection.

But in my years of experience, I have discovered that there’s no one life that is perfect, everyone has a lack of something.

Some couples are very loving, monthly salary of 10K+, but they could have problems bearing child.

Some people have the looks and talent, but could have a rough time in relationships.
Some people have lots of money, but they don’t have filial children.
Some people look to have a good life, but their brain could be empty all their life.

Everyone’s life has been designed with imperfections, you may not want it, but it will follow you. I used to hate my imperfection, but now I have learnt to accept it with open arms.

Because I understand that the flaw in life is like a spike on our backs, reminding us to be humble and to emphatise with others.

If there are no hardships, we will be complacent. If there is no depression, we cannot emphatize and console those who are less fortunate.

I also believe that life cannot be too perfect, having a crack to let happiness flow to others is a beautiful thing.

"You don’t have to have everything.
If you have everything, what’s left for the others?
Also recognise that life has flaws,
that I will not compare myself with others,
instead cherish what you already have."

So, don’t go around envying others, count the blessings that Heaven has bestowed upon you, you will find that there are more things that you have than things that you don’t have.

And what you do not have, although not lovable, is very much part of your life,
accept and appreciate it, and your life will be much happier.

Find someone who understands you…
and also hope you are that someone who understands him/her...

The intelligent like to guess people’s heart…
Although everytime they get it right, they will lose their own...

The innocent and naive love to give their hearts…
Although they get laughed at everytime but they would have won over other people’s hearts...


dunno abt u...but i hope i can live my life after these words of wisdom...
sobz sobz~~

more often than not...i've been throwing my temper(as some of my closer friends would noe...) like no one's business...disliking almost anything dat doesnt go my way...pretty stupid rite? i agree...but i realli used to be dat...(in fact...i still am...) but i realli hope to try and accept things as they are and not recklessly get pissed for nothing...stop my foolish ideas and childish acts...sigh...